A coach is a leader, a teacher, a friend and much more. As the old saying goes, "Attitudes are contagious, what are you spreading?" Ask yourself the following questions and do your best to be your best.
Will I spend a lot of time yelling instructions during games?
When spectators see me from across the field, will I look stressed or relaxed?
Will I smile more this season than last?
Goal Setting for Players & Families
One of the coach's top priorities is Player Development and goal setting is one best tools for keeping players both focused and motivated. Be sure to include the player's parents in the assessment and goal setting conversation, this will keep the whole Coach - Player - Parent team on the same page.
Measure the players abilities through the skill assessment recommendations or other activities
Send a separate email to each parent explaining the process and include the assessment results for their player only
Be sure to specifically ask the parent to discuss goal setting with their player and to come up with a couple ideas
Plan to spend about 5 - 10 minutes per player. (returning players may need only a few)
Make an appointment with the parents and hold them accountable if they don't show.
Non practice days would be best but you can try to squeeze into your practice schedule.
Try to complete all player goals before games begin
Let the parents know they can talk to you about it at any time during the season
Revisit by email when 1/2 way through the season, let them know if on track or needs to improve
Wrap up the season by providing recommendations for areas that can be worked on in the next season
Sample Goal:
Skill Assessment results show lower than average control when passing a ball. The ball often does not go in the direction it was planned to travel
Goal: Work with family and friends outside of practice on making good contact with the ball. Take a snapshot in your head on where you want the ball to go then focus on foot to ball contact and body positioning.