Arrive early enough to set nets - safety walk the field
Have team warm ups on auto pilot - Ask assistant coaches to warm up
Relax and try to have fun. If you are relaxed then your more likely to enjoy yourself and your players will too
Your Game Plan 1:
Warm Up’s Break a sweat before game starts
Meet the other Coaches - get their first name
Meet the Ref - get their full name
Have a formation already planned and a back up plan
Place players where they can be successful
Don’t over direct during the game, games are for managing not teaching
Your Game Plan 2:
Manage substitutes evenly (50% play time)
No post game speeches, leave it for practice
Team cheer & shake hands
Post game analysis & notes
Prep for next practice
Conflict Resolution:
The # 1 way to prevent conflicts is to talk with the other coaches and become friendly before the game starts. Always try to accomplish this goal while your assistant coaches are warming up the team.
Ask Questions (Coach Jim, you're 5 goals up can we share players?)
Do not make demands - be reasonable
Stay calm & speak slowly & low tone- remember that everyone is watching you
Smile and use first names to ease the situation
Put yourself in the other persons shoes - Work together
Worse case, if the other coach is not willing to talk or is being rude you must decide if it's a safety concern. If yes, ask the referee for help to resolve the safety incident. If no, take notes and report the situation later to your club but do not escalate the confrontation. Remain calm and act sportsmanlike at all times.